Friday, July 15, 2011

No hobby, no relationship

My boyfriend dumped me because I don’t have any particular hobbies. He’s a professional photographer and as far as I know he even created his own style. I was really into his hobby for a while, but then my interest cooled down. I don’t really have anything I could spend hours on hanging on the internet, or reading tons of thick encyclopedias, participating in hobby groups etc.

Basically, I’m quite a broad-minded person and there are things I take interest in. Sometimes I get involved for a long time, and sometimes I don’t go further than collecting some information on that thing I got interested in. In my bf’s opinion, if I had such a hobby that would make our relationship stronger. For the last two years I tried hard to prove my ex that I’m an interesting and open-minded girl, but ended up losing any confidence in myself. How do I feel fine and confident again?

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