Foreign men and the way they communicate with Ukrainian girls

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I work for a company that runs several relative internet projects. One of
them is a paying online dating website, where European and American men
communicate with Ukrainian girls. The guys pay for the correspondence with them,
phone calls, dates etc.

Meanwhile a number of moderators of the site and I have an accesses to all
the correspondence, the statistics of dates, gifts etc.

This is a list of things I observed on this dating site:

1. It was interesting to find out that men write the same sort of things to
different girls. Even though I thought so before, but still wasn’t sure about
that. When I read just the same phrases, same love expressions to different
girls, the way I interpreted men changed. The thing that amazed me the most was
the fact that the messages were full of feelings – not only “you are beautiful”
they wrote, but various love confessions, marriage proposals, discussions of
children names. When I read that for the 1^st time, I even believed
that guys who wrote that were truly in love. Then I noticed that they
communicated the same way with other girls, and proposed marriage to several
girls at the same time, meanwhile asking out other girls.

2. The things those men write also stroke me. This fat European guy lives in
Germany and understands that women around him are rather free – they build a
career and don’t want to have children. And there he is on the website, looking
for a wife from Ukraine and tells her straight up that he wants to have 5 kids
and claims that a woman should stay at home for the first few years, bringing up
a child.

That’s one more proof of European men being civilized within Europe only,
where they talk about equality of women, and go on maternity leave instead of
their wives (that happens quite often). However, if there’s a poor girl who will
grovel before a guy for his money, she can be treated as a slave, a “sow”; he
can dictate his demands to her, which are quite far from the European concepts
of equality of rights.

3. When European and American guys meet with a girl, they usually book the
cheapest lousy apartments with really old furniture from the Soviet times.
Nevertheless, these Europeans and Americans have at least an average income and
when they travel themselves they book expensive or moderately expensive
apartments (that can be seen from the sales statistics of the website for
European tourists). In other words, in addition to looking just for a slave
these guys are greedy and hope that Ukrainian “sow girls” will cost them cheaper
then European ones.

4. As a rule, Ukrainian girls are not looking for a husband, but earn money
on this dating site. They get money for every message, call, meeting, that is
why they are extremely interested in dragging out their communication. And the
girls’ mendacity surprises me as well. They write things like “my dear”, “I
missed you so much”, “I want to meet you”, send lots of kiss and heart emoticons
to every man. They get money of them, grumble at their life and each time
emphasize how housewifely they are and how much they like to cook. Basically,
they behave the way Thai girls do. It’s disgusting, especially if you look at
those 50 and 60 year old ugly freaks they write to.

5. A number of girls are looking for a husband and dream of moving to Europe
(according to the marriage statistics of the website). It’s clear, that these
Ukrainian girls are trying to find an European husband in the hope that he will
be rich and will support them financially. These European men show their greedy
nature right in the correspondence. For instance, they write, ‘You want to hire
an interpreter because you don’t speak English well, don’t you? Do you think I’m
a fool? You can use dictionaries for our communication’.

6. Sometimes I’m amazed why the guy chooses one or another girl, if they are
all alike, for real! Absolutely identical pics. The only difference is - you can
see that the piс is photoshopped, provided the girl is 37 years old. If she’s
20, it’s noticeable that the skin is young. Except that they are all alike in
their poses, make up, affectedness, and all look in their 30s. The messages
girls usually write are all alike as well - they write how kind and good they
are, how much they want to have kids, and are into serious relationship. It’s so
boring to read that. In fact, there’s no choice, all of them are dull and
ordinary.

Generally speaking, I have an unpleasant impression of that dating website.